Wednesday, April 9, 2008

NLP Birth Model, Change your brain, change your birth

NLP Birth Model, Change your mind, change your birth experience.

The course outline is as follows:

• The Infant brain,
o developmental stages, Mirror Neurons
o chemistry & characteristics of the symbiotic relationship of mother & infant
• Moments of Birth
o Chemistry heightened & it’s reflective nature
o Purpose of the increased chemistry & hormonal levels
• The First 3 days – Triune Brain development
o Baby Brain development
o The mammalian response versus the reptilian response
o Infant stimulus and mortality considerations

• The psyche of the birthing mother – during a major uncivilized occasion

o Change your brain – change your experience of birth
o Myths in Childbirth- the psyche’s internal reference library
o How belief creates the experience
o How experience can limit beliefs – a model for understanding what motivates us

• NLP as a model for Birth
o Fear, Terror, Pain, a protocol for resistance
o Neuro response to FTP protocols.
o Skeletal & muscular response to FTP

• Why Hypnosis works
o Deep trance state of birth
o Connecting to the Unconscious mind
o Tapping the great inner reservoir
o What contributes success in the pool of birth
o Is a “live baby” good enough?
o Ecstatic birth

• Women and their natural ability to unconsciously connect
o Make A connection that counts
o One that stops, impedes, flounders, rejects and incapacitates
o The Virgin becomes the Mother – giving birth to ourselves as mothers
o The Death Mother – “It was good enough for you” syndrome

• Momma doesn’t live here anymore.
o The Mitochondrial DNA which passes all understanding
o The fecal cells and their long tale - attachment

Parenting in the new Millennium and why our children don’t care about the story that got them here – Broken bonds, broken promises
o That was then, this is now
o Drama’s that keep on giving – the mother daughter symbiosis
o The return of the FTP syndrome, - fear packets that motivate
o Creating the optimum mind set in our children
o Healthy expectations start from a clear pallet



• The three motivators of the Death Mother

o Guilt, Shame, and “you disappoint me”
o Healing from the past, a long over due, “cord cutting”

• The new motherhood
o This generation will define itself as it has lived
o I don’t accept failure.
o The TYPE A personality –
o I have to do it all, myself, synopsis for recovery

• Our kids get us and do they ever
o Our children know us, and they are here to teach us…it was never the other way around
o Getting real with the stories we tell our kids….there’s no way your daughter was like her uncle from the moment of her birth!
o Telling the story often enough – gets you a legacy

• Healing the legacy
o I’m giving birth to my first child and I’m caught under my archetypal legacy….
o Mother, pure and simple, free and clear
o Motherhood uncompromised
o Mother Bear Energy

• There is no perfect
o Change your mind, change your brain
o Getting out of the ties that bind us
o Breaking free from stories that no longer serve us.

• Birth My Way -
o Suggestions for new mothers, creating positive dependency during birth
o Do not ask me to view your internal movies,
o I will not PUSH, nor entertain suggestion of pain.
o I will allow my body to do what it knows to do, I trust my DNA
o I will hold my child, and feel it’s warmth and assure it, I’m it’s mother.
o I will pass all the blood to my baby, you will WAIT
o I will not be terrified by your trivial statistics, I have my own Oxytocin.
o My own time line, unfettered
o I have as many letters after my name as you do, and in the case of RN’s Midwives and doula’s, many more!
o Do not come between myself and my unborn child – Mother Bear comes home
o Do not come between myself and my new born child- Mother Bear in her power
o My intuition is greater service to my baby than your statistical analysis
o Suggestions of a negative nature I am not interested in.
o I do not have to trust you.
o I do not have to connect to you, or your world, you have to find a way to connect to mine.

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